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Dating Tips for Men: How to be IRRESISTIBLE to a high quality woman by Antoinette Cabral

This article was first published in YourTango.com

It’s much different than what most men think!

A high quality woman has many suitors.  Why?  Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to.  She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way.  Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything.  She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.

A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life!  She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way.  She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her.  She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you.  Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.

You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language.  She can light up a room.  Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.

You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her.  You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic.  She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality.  The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong.  She will not settle. 

I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world.  With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective.  From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship.  60% of divorce is initiated by women.  Why?  Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.

Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy.  She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either.  Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.

It’s not about how hot you are.  Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can.  If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off!  Good looks alone can only get you so far. 

Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you.  She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.

How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman? 

Provide vulnerability:  A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings.  He goes into his cave. He closes off.  In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level. 

A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe.  Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain.  The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.  Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!

Learn from your past relationships:  A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware.  She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman.  She doesn’t hold onto the past.  She knows how to forgive and let go.  She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new.  When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship.  You will stand out from other men!!

She is a flower:  If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.

I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!!  Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you?  She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.   

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then CLICK HERE to book your complimentary session!

 Please tell your friends,  and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU.Much love,
Antoinette Cabral
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men

Dating and Relationship Advice for Women: Embrace Your Feminine Magnetism for this Summer

Connect to your sensual and feminine magnetism this Summer!  It’s July, and Summer is RIPE!  Remember I shared with you that Summer is the best time to manifest a sexy and empowered man.

One of the best ways to do this is by finding ways to PLAY!  The inner child isn’t afraid to connect to her sense of fun.  When you play, you bring out light, radiance and enchanting magnetism in your life.  People are drawn to YOU and want to have fun.

I remember dancing on the beach on the Manhattan Beach board walk by myself while my friend watched.  I drew in a friend another friend, Tieu, who came and joined me.   We had a nice crowd of men and women who enjoyed watching the two us dancing and we acted as if no one was watching.  This is “feminine magnetism” in action.

I am not telling you that you have to go out and start dancing on the boardwalk.  I want you to do something that bring you joy and motivates you from your heart.  This is magnetic!!!  Men want to play with you and want to be around YOU!

HAVE FUN!!!!!!

Are you tired of attracting the wrong man, contact me at info@antoinettecabral.com to book a complimentary Manifest Your Man Strategy Session today!


Los Angeles Dating and Relationship Advice for Men | Help me find a woman

What do women want from men?  How to love a woman?

1.  to fall asleep together, to snuggle, to spoon, but not to always be expected to want sex

2.  to have certain rituals together that are indestructible

  3.  to share a hobby, sport, game, activity — and all the better if you can talk while doing it

  4.  to have a partner that does not compartmentalize – opens up and shares the different parts of his life

  5.  talking/connecting in some way every day

  6.  touching every day

  7.  dreaming together, setting goals together

  8.  being treated nicer than anyone else in the world

  9.  able to keep secrets

 10.  able to be put first at times

 11.  able to do creative problem-solving

 12.  belief in the institution of marriage

Sharon Gilchrest O’Neill, Ed.S., LMFT, is a marriage and family therapist/consultant  in Westchester, NY, who has been in private practice for over twenty years. She is the author of A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage  (the Gay Edition to be released July 24th) and Sheltering Thoughts About Loss and Grief.  Sharon is often called upon as an expert and has been quoted in the NY Times, the Wall Street Journal, and a variety of print and online publications.  She can contacted at her website: www.ashortguidetoahappymarriage.com

Are you tired of attracting the wrong woman?  Go to http://Getthatonespecialgirl.com  and sign up for my free video series:  Stand out from other men, become irresistible, so she chooses YOU!

Dating Tips for Men: What I Really Want In A Relationship by Joan Meijer

Because I am on the dating sites at age 73 I think about this quite a bit, probably because I get very few positive responses to my description about myself. Most of the men on those sites seem to spend their lives at the gym. I expected golfers. I was surprised by the weight lifters. They also seem to be longing for the wives they’ve lost. Either I am so out of touch that I don’t share the same planet (which is certainly possible) or they seem to be saying the things they think I want to hear. They extol the virtues of holding hands by the fireplace and taking long walks on the beach – I think they’re more in touch with their feminine side than I am. Actually, I wanted that when I was 20.

Today, as a novelist consumed with selling my books, I want a relationship that allows me to be self-fulfilled and utterly selfish. I want someone who is as busy and productive as I am. Who drops by for coffee and perhaps great sex for a couple of hours and then who rushes home to engage in his own selfish interests. I want a man who is as interested in ideas and projects and making the most of these last years of his life as I am and doesn’t have time for long strolls on the beach and sitting before a fire holding hands. I don’t care if he’s a physically fit vegan with all his teeth. What’s he interested in?

I definitely want someone who never watches TV – someone who reads books on economics and politics – someone who never wants to retire. I definitely don’t want someone who loves fishing, camping and riding motorcycles. I am completely turned off by men who offer me “security” in a way that sounds a good deal like whoring. I like being self-sufficient and I love men who support that aspect in me.

I like men who converse as opposed to delivering monologues. I have actually taken naps during phone conversations with dates who didn’t last long and the men haven’t noticed. In short I’d rather be alone than date most of the men who appear to be available to me. And most of the men who appear to be available to me aren’t attracted to me. Which is very much okay and pretty much how it’s always been.

Over the years since my divorce, nearly 30 years ago, I actually have had relationships like the one I describe. It has required finding men who are totally unavailable for one reason or another or finding  men I like and find attractive but whom I know better than to consider entering into a more conventional relationship with.

I’m not willing to settle for something less any more. Life by myself is way too interesting to be burdened by giving it up to someone who isn’t a great match.



Joan Meijer is the author of over 20 works of fiction and non-fiction including three thriller and one historical novel based on one of the greatest medical mysteries of all times. She has released her novels on the digital publishing houses like kindle and nook to rave reviews and five star ratings and been favorably compared to Robin Cook and Tess Gerritsen. She lives in Los Angeles and spends weekends reading to her grandson, developing in him a love of books and stories.

Are you tired of attracting the wrong woman?  Go to http://Getthatonespecialgirl.com  and sign up for my free video series:  Stand out from other men, become irresistible, so she chooses YOU!


How to be sensual with a man on the Passion Muse Show on HealthyLife.net

I had a blast on Mia Whitmore’s show the Passion Muse sharing with the audience how to truly embrace feminine magnetism.  While on the show, the producer was enjoying our conversation:



How to be sensual with a man: Antoinette Cabral on Male Room TV!

I had a blast being on the Male Room TV a couple weeks ago with Brad Swanson and Corey Jenkins.  I talk about embracing empowered sensuality…..much different from what you might think sensuality might be about.   Plus, it was great being around grounded and sexy men.  Please watch!

First Date Tips: Connection vs. Compatability

Have you been getting your flirt on??

Getting your flirt on the feminine way, is so much FUN because it’s about you radiating your feminine magnetism from within.

Remember:  Men crave your feminine ways!

After you meet a man that you like, then it’s time to get to know him on your first date!

Your first date is not to meet your soul mate, but to see how compatible you truly are with him.

You might have a connection with man and he might be a really great guy, but are you truly compatible in the long term?

In my up coming program that is starting this Wednesday, MANIFEST THE   RIGHT MAN ~ THE EMPOWERED FEMININE WAY!, I share with you the   7 steps a woman should use to get to know a man to see if he is the right man!

I will give you two of the 7 steps right here:

Step 1: Check out his values when it comes to marriage.  Not all men want to get married!

Step 2: HAVE FUN!! There is nothing like being around a woman who keeps things light and fun!  Bring out your feminine and fun side, because this is truly IRRESISTIBLE to men.  Who doesn’t like to have fun?

I can’t wait to share the 7 steps in my upcoming program!  It’s going to be packed with juicy information.  Plus, it will be A LOT of fun because I am fun!

How important is it for you to meet the right man?

Are you tired of attracting the wrong man over and over again?

Do you want to embrace your feminine magnetism and manifest a thriving, healthy and sexy relationship?

What are you waiting for?



5 WEEK CALL SERIES includes videos, audios and 24 page welcome packet!

Wednesdays, March 28, 2012 to April 25 6:00-7:15pm PST USA

Only $497

My hourly rate is $347, so if you’ve been wanting to coach with me, this is your chance!!  I only offer this program LIVE once a year!


Antoinette is a passionate, playful and authentic mentor and I’ve appreciated her perspective on approaching life and dating relationships for many years. I find her seminars thought provoking and highly recommend them to any woman seeking a deeper, more satisfying relationship with herself. “  Maryanne Van Meter, San Diego, CA is now married with her first child with this man.

Dating Advice for Women: Radiating Feminine Magnetism and Meeting Men

Hello beautiful!

Happy Magical Monday!

Your own feminine magnetism is enchanting and magical to the right man!

Embracing your empowered feminine ways is very magical like this rainbow.

AND the right man can feel this way around YOU!  Remember how I talk about body language.  Your body language is 70% of communication, and he is MAGNETIZED BY YOU because you are magic to him.

I’ve seen it in my own life, and in my clients lives.

A client of mine, Jane, is having soooo much fun embracing her radiant feminine energy.  In one day she had a date with a handsome French Moroccan man and the same day met a handsome Italian man while riding the bus to museum.  How fun!  All in one day…..she’s been practicing being in her radiant feminine magnetism and they want to get to know her!

You can meet the right man anywhere when you are radiating your feminine magnetism…and it’s a signal for him to approach you.

I will say this again and again….MEN CRAVE YOUR FEMININE WAYS!

This is your best asset when it comes to dating and love.

“Feminine Magnetism” is available to ANYONE if you practice and receive support!

Men don’t want to be around a woman that is hard, linear,  and rough like them.

This is how you meet great men, by using your own “feminine magnetism”.

Want to learn more?

Join me for my next unbelievable FREE CALL valued at $97

Wednesday, March 21, 2012  6pm PST, 9pm EST

“The Art of Flirting and Meeting the Right Man ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!”

Click here to register and get the call details!

Jane will share her story of how she went from man hating to man loving, from man repellant to man magnet in a few months!

Jane is 50 years old and is embracing her “feminine magnetism”!

You definitely want to be on the call LIVE because I will be giving away $500 worth of BONUSES!

Please do me a favor, and forward this email to at least three friends right now. 🙂

Click here to register and get the call details!

To your love and dating success,


Antoinette Cabral

Manifest the Right Man
by Embracing a Female Sensual Lifestyle
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How to be sensual with a man: How to flirt with a man

How are you?  This is my advice for how to be sensual with a man.

I hope you enjoyed reading my story about my own personal journey with men.  Yes!  I absolutely LOVE MEN and finding ways for you to THRIVE in relationship…..and that is why I share with you why I love what I do.

Do you want to learn how to flirt?

Do you even know how to flirt and meet great men?

First off, I want to share with you, you MUST have the foundation of healthy self esteem, confidence and embrace the feminine ways FIRST!

For my personal clients, together we build the empowered feminine foundation which is YOU!

The next step, is that I make sure that you clear and heal your negative experiences and beliefs about men that you might be holding onto.  If you don’t, it actually shows up in your own body language.  Since over 70% of communication is made through the body, then a healthy man can actually sense if you are holding onto these beliefs. This will directly affect what type of man you will attract when you flirt and start meeting men.

When you flirt you emit radiant body language…..


As an empowered women, the first step in flirting is having a connection and embracing your own radiant, feminine and sensual confidence!!

Feminine Tip of the day:

Look at  your self in the mirror. Notice your body language.  Adjust your body, so you feel confident,  radiant and loving.  Tell yourself how beautiful you are.  Walk and feel your body with this connection to your radiance.  Start your day off with feminine body language.

The right man will start to pick up on your radiant feminine energy.  He will notice YOU by your body language.

Men crave your empowered feminine ways….this is IRRESISTIBLE to the right man.

The next step I will further discuss in depth in my coaching program starting soon. 🙂

Want to learn more?

Manifest the Right Man ~

The Empowered Feminine Way!

5 Week Group Coaching Program with videos, audio and 24 page welcome packet starts:

March 28, 2012 at 6pm PST!

Only $497

Space is limited!

I have changed the format to fit your needs, and have it easy for you to SAY YES to yourself!

Click here to register for the program!!

If you have any questions about the program, please email me at info@antoinettecabral.com. I would love to answer any of your questions on dating and love!

Have a beautiful and sensual day!

Much love,

Antoinette Cabral

How to be sensual with a man: My own personal journey with men!

One thing I know for sure is how to be sensual with a man, how to attract men,  how to flirt with men, how to heal from a heart break and how to break the pattern of attracting the wrong man.

Let me tell you sister, when you learn how to heal from a heart break, build your self esteem and confidence, and learn how to flirt and be feminine around a man...A WHOLE NEW WORLD OF DATING AND LOVE CAN BEGIN!


YES!  You heard me right…dating and finding the right man or lover can be soooooooo exciting and so much fun!! Whoooohoooooo!!

For many years, while all my girlfriends and clients were obsessed with finding the right man, I loved just meeting men, getting to know men, flirting with men and dating several men at the same time. How do you think I got all my juicy information that I share with you?? I’ve read a plethora of books about men, taken workshops by relationship experts, and received personal coaching by dating and love coaches,  and more than anything, it was my experience with all these great men, and not so great men that gave me great and unique insight into the world of dating and love.

Here are some of my experiences:

  • I have my heart broken way too many times.
  • I thought I was in love, announced it to all my family and friends to find out the very next day that it wasn’t going to work out 🙁  That was humiliating!
  • I’ve been proposed to a handful of times, but wasn’t ready.
  • Men have rejected me over and over again.
  • I was betrayed by a man, and thought I couldn’t trust again, but learned to love again.
  • If I liked a guy, I would pursue him! Wrong….that goes against natural law!
  • Men have lied to me just to try to get into my pants 🙁
  • For many years, I was closed off sexually.  Making loves was painful and excruciating.  Now, I am able to have full body orgasms without physical contact.
  • I’ve been a muse more than once, where men have told me that I was the BEST thing that has happened to them.


When clients come to me for dating and relationship help, I know first hand on how to help them, and not just because I studied it, taken workshops and ready books on men, but because I know first hand how to MANIFEST THE RIGHT MAN ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!

  • I’ve recently helped a client heal her rejection issues with her dad which keeps showing up in her love life…men who reject her for another woman.  She is now loving herself through the process, and ready to manifest a healthy relationship!
  • A client in her 50s had bad experiences with men, didn’t trust men, and now is embracing here empowered feminine ways where younger men in their 30s are pursuing her!
  • A recent client asked me why she keeps attracting all the horn dogs. She say, “They just want get into my pants right away.”  I said that she is leaking her senxual energy and she is learning how to set boundaries with men.  Women set the pace when it comes to relationship!   A healthy man respects a healthy woman with boundaries. If he doesn’t, then MOVE ON!
  • A male client of mine has called in this amazing woman who is a match for his new empowered masculine ways.  He told me the other day, “Whatever you are teaching me about energy, attraction and dating, this new woman is says the same things that you do.  I have never felt this chemistry before with a woman, and it’s not just physical!” He is the perfect example of the type of man you would want to call in!

Are you ready to take this journey with me??

Manifest the Right Man ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!

I have my newest 5 week group coaching program starting

March 28, 2012 at 6pm PST!

Only $497

Space is limited!

I have changed the format to fit your needs, and have it easy for you to SAY YES to yourself!

Click here to register for the program!!

If you have any questions about the program, please email me at info@antoinettecabral.com. I would love to answer any of your questions on dating and love!

Have a beautiful and sensual day!

To your love and dating success,

Antoinette Cabral