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Are you attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

Do you keep attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

I dated a guy in the past where the chemistry was off the charts.  Later, I realized that we weren’t even on the same page with important values, and he was not emotionally available.  After weeks of tumultion, I thought to myself, “Am I really doing this again?”

 

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Chemistry can be addicting at first, but it helps you overlook the real qualities this man or woman may or may not be offering.  Also, you get so caught up in the chemistry drug that when it wears off you realize that sometimes this person might even be a bit crazy,  narcissistic or a complete mess.  Can you relate?

Lesson learned.  I no longer jumped into relationships based on chemistry alone because it just plain sucked.  As a Love Coach, I experienced lessons and growth first hand, so I can share the wisdom I gained to overcome the past experiences to clients.  Hopefully, they don’t have to go through the same challenges and obstacles that I have in dating and love.

Now here’s the scoop:

1)  Don’t sleep with someone right away.  Get to know someone first before you give them the prize, which is you.  Men, I know you may be thinking that I am nuts, but do you really want to be entangled with a woman who goes crazy on you.  Women you might mistake the chemistry for the connection you deeply crave, but wait to give yourself away to a man sexually.  Trust me on this.

2) Create a best friend ship as the foundation.  You’ve heard stories of people who are divorced and literally hate their ex.  I can see they probably didn’t create a best friend first.  A best friend has your back, listens to you, pays attention to what you want, and you can trust this person.  Does his or her actions reflect what they say?  Is it easy to be with person or is it a struggle?

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3) Listen to your intuition.  If a man says, he is not ready to be in a long term relationship, he is actually telling you the truth.  Women, don’t try change his mind. You aren’t on the same page as him, and let him go.  Men, if you don’t have a good feeling about her, then stand up for yourself and tell her that you are no longer interested in dating her.

I work with clients around the country, and I hear the same story over again.  “I have such great chemistry with him/her?”  Do yourself a favor and if you are not on the same page, then don’t sleep with him or her until you have found your best friend.  Create a boundary around your heart’s desires and say yes to what you truly want inside.

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Antoinette Cabral Find Your Dream Partner

 

Are you tired of all the dating drama?

frustrated from dating I know how you feel.  I have been there before.  I would date men who didn’t want to be in a serious relationship.  Or I thought they liked me, but I never heard back from them.  Plus, I kept attracting men who rejected me over and over again until I learned how to break the vicious cycle.

This is what I learned:

1)  Be clear on what you are looking for when you are online dating and dating in general.  If you know what you are looking for, then you can weed out the people who suck. 🙂

2)  Raise your self esteem, so that you KNOW that you are amazing.  When you know how much you have to offer, then you will stand up for yourself and not date men or women who like to play games.

3)  See if there is a pattern of you attracting the same relationship over and over again.  Ask yourself:  Is the past affecting the present??  This is an important step in breaking the cycle of attracting the wrong relationships.

When you start to use these tools, then your dream partner CAN and WILL start to show up in  your life.

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Dating Advice for Men: Do you keep attracting the “wrong” women?

How are you?  Have you been enjoying your Summer so far?

I have been spending lots of time in the mountains.  It’s gorgeous here.

Just wanted to check in and see how you are doing in your dating and love life?

Do you keep attracting the wrong women?

Dating Advice for Men
Do you keep attracting women who are NEVER happy?

 

 

When working with my clients, I see that some of you men keep attracting the “wrong” women is because of these reasons:

  1. You have to find happiness within you before you can find happiness within a relationship.
  2. You MUST heal from your past relationship before you can move onto the next relationship.  Time does help to heal, but forgiveness of the past relationship is essential if you are going to find a happy and drama-free woman.
  3. You have to understand her language.  Women like connection, communication and cuddling.  Yes, we are more emotional.  We want to be close to you.

If you are confused and want clarity, I am offering 5 complimentary Find Your Dream Woman Sessions to men who are serious about finding love.

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These sessions are here to help you find out where your dating and love blind spots are.

The men I work with are:

  • Meeting amazing woman who they would never meet before.
  • Feeling confident and embracing their power as men.
  • Having amazing adventures with their new women.
  • Feeling fulfilled having a beautiful and happy woman who believes and supports them.

I look forward to supporting you in finding your dream woman.

Thanks for being awesome and have a beautiful day!

Antoinette Cabral

Antoinette Cabral, Dating Coach for MenDating Expert for Women and Men

 

Dating Advice for Men: Are you stuck in the friend’s zone?

Hi there.

It’s Antoinette here.  I share the female perspective to finding your dream woman.  I wanted to ask you a few questions today.

Do you like a woman and she only wants to be your friend?

Are you attracted to her, but you she is only giving you signals of being a friend?

I get it.  It sucks being stuck in the friend zone.

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A woman does NOT want to be friends with a man who she sees and feels as a pushover.  If you are being too nice, then she can see you as a friend, but not someone she can be with long term.  Her feminine instinct says that you are friend quality, not a man who can protect her and make her feel safe.  She may not even know this is going on, but it’s a feeling inside of her. 

Do you feel that if you come on too strong you might push her away or seem to aggressive?

A woman needs man to be assertive and confident, but not aggressive and overbearing.  The modern drama-free woman needs a man who is embodying his confidence, strength and kindness, not a man who is wishy-washy and too nice.  The modern masculine man can be strong, yet sensitive at the same time. 

What do you do if you are stuck in the friend’s zone?

If you are stuck in the friend’s zone, and you don’t know what to do, here are some first steps:

Build your confidence as a man.  When you are confident and know who you are, then a woman will see you more than just a friend.  Write a list of things that you have to offer.  Read this list over and over again until you gain your confidence.

Claim your power as a man.  When you start to claim your power as a man, then you start to value yourself.  When you value yourself and see what you have to offer, then if she doesn’t like you back, it doesn’t matter.  She is not the one.  You’ll start to understand that you have so much to offer that you won’t waste your time on women who don’t see you.

Go after what you want. When you go after what you want, this shows strength and power to a woman.  This is sexy to a modern, drama-free woman. 

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I believe in you.  I know that with an amazing woman by your side, the impossible becomes possible.

Dating Advice for Men | Are you stuck in the friend's zone?

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Antoinette Cabral

Dating & Love Coach for Women and Men

Dating Advice for Men: Does Your Size Really Matter to Her?

Here’s the real juicy scoop on what turns her on, and it’s different than what you think!

I am Antoinette.  I share the female perspective.  I am here to share with you secrets on how to be with a Drama-Free Woman that most people aren’t sharing.  Can you keep a secret?

Does Your Package Really Matter to HerI remember dating a guy who had a humongous package.  After he got hard, I thought to myself, “How is THAT going to fit inside of me?”  After the whole ordeal, I felt disappointed and unsatisfied.

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Dating Advice for Men: 7-Differences Between a Drama-Free Woman and a Drama Queen

Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who is supportive and has her own life?

drama-queenFrom a female perspective, I’m going to share with you 7 differences between drama queens and drama-free women. These 7 points come from my proven 7-Step System that allows you to stop dating drama queens and start attracting happy, drama-free women. And so in the spirit of finding love with a drama-free woman, read on to see her characteristics.

A drama free woman will…

1. Ask for What She Wants and Needs
She will communicate to you if something is bothering her and leave no room for miscommunication. A drama-queen doesn’t communicate effectively, and often becomes upset when you don’t read her mind. Sound familiar?

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Dating Tips For Men: Make Her Want You Even More For Just In Time For Valentine’s Day

Do you want to know what a happy and Drama-free woman wants for Valentine’s Day?  She wants something more than pick up techniques, strategies or what money can buy.  I have three important secrets to share with you to sweetly seduce her.  Shhhhhhhhhhh!  Can you keep a secret?

1. Embrace your masculine nature.  But, don’t waver into your energy.  Women can sense energy, especially the intention behind your body language. So, become the masculine to her feminine.  Allow yourself to be solid and strong, so she can softly surrender to you.

Advice: You must be emotionally and energetically available for her to open up to you.

Help find your woman2. Connect to her heart, not just her body.  The key to a woman is her through her heart.  Her feelings are more intense and deeper than the average man.  Her mind and body are interconnected – a woman never separates these two entities. You will find that her heart yearns for deep connection and devotion. Women are able to listen and understand where people’s emotions come from.

Advice: Listen to her when she is sharing – not just hear her.  Open up and share with her a part of you that may be vulnerable.  This will deepen the connection.

3. Sweetly seduce her with your own sexy and straightforward communication.  Do you like being noticed about the positive you bring to life?  Well, so does she! Look at her deeply in the eyes. Tell her that you think that she is incredibly beautiful and special every time you think about her. Let her know that you want her by returning eye contact, attention, or even her calls and texts. Touch her hair or her skin softly while you two are together to communicate the fact that she belongs in your life. Your relationship with her is the reason why you look forward to the future. Feel it. Say it. Mean it. She will feel safe with you.

Advice: Follow these steps and your sweet Valentine seduction has begun.

Women deeply crave emotional connection, affection and communication more than you realize.  The more you learn these tools, you will find an amazing woman who will cherish you and bring out the best in you.  When you deepen your connection to a woman, you will deepen your relationship in more ways than one.

If you want to learn more secrets, go to FindYourDreamPartner.com and sign up for Antoinette’s free video series.  You can, also, sign up for a free Find Your Dream Partner Strategy Session HERE.

Dating Advice for Men: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

Because I am a Dating & Relationship Expert for Men, I can spot things in people right away.  I was at a party last week.  I was casually talking to a guy named Jeff.   He asked me what I did.  I let him know that I help men find their dream woman.  I take them through a 7 step process and look at their own unique dating and love blind spots.  After I take them through the process, the men experience profound changes in their lives, feeling more confident, embracing their masculine power, understanding women, and choosing a woman who will bring out the best in them.  They are happy.  He seemed interested in what I had to share.

I asked him about his last relationship.  He said he went through divorce.  I asked him what happened.  He said, “Well, she was super attractive and the sex was great.  She eventually pressured me into marriage.  After we got married, we had nothing in common.”  I asked him, “Did you know that you didn’t have anything in common while you were dating her?”   Jeff says, “I didn’t care.  She was hot.  I was getting laid often.  After we got married, our sex life went down hill because she wasn’t happy.  We ended up getting a divorce.”

Jeff’s need were simple.  He was attracted to his woman.  He had regular sex.  That made him happy at the moment.  I hated to break this to Jeff, but there is more to a lasting relationship than just chemistry alone.   He ended up getting married to a woman that he had NOTHING in common with.   The oxytocin that is released from her during orgasm bonded the two of them.   Once she was bonded, then the expectations go up at least 1000%.   The expectations is what you call nagging and drama.   Because he wasn’t compatible, the expectations from her were never fulfilled, thus the divorce.

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How to Love A Woman: 5 Ways to be Truly Satisfied

In the dating world today, it can often be difficult to figure out if someone is the “right” match.  So often the questions come up, “Am I expecting too much? Will I never be satisfied? Should I settle? Since I never suggest settling, I created a theory that may be helpful for those who are trying to figure it out…to start, there are 2 main questions that one should ask him or herself when questioning forever with a mate.

1) Who is this person in relation to the real world?

What do they do? How do they act? What is their life like etc.? This often turns people on or off prematurely.  i.e. “He is a doctor and loves kids! We are perfect for each other!”

2) Who is this person in relation to me?

What is your actual connection like? Do you connect in some or all of the ways that are most important to you? This is where my “Fundamental Five Theory” comes into play, because often times people “jump in” or reject prematurely based on the type of connections they may or may not have.

Who is this person in relation to me?”

I think that each person requires a certain level of connection in each of the following areas to be truly satisfied in a relationship.

The Fundamental Five Ways to Connect with your Partner

1)    Intellectual: Can this person connect with me intellectually?

2) Emotional: Can this person understand/handle my emotions? Do I feel comfortable sharing?

3) Spiritual: Does this person share or respect my spiritual/non-spiritual beliefs?

4) Chemistry: Does it feel natural and enjoyable to be in each other’s physical presence?

5) Lifestyle: If I were to be dropped off into his/her “world” would it feel comfortable? (i.e. culture, eating habits, sleeping patterns, cleanliness, social habits, health, hobbies, etc.)

“Why doesn’t this feel right?” Often people start a relationship based on the excitement that comes with idealizing a person’s “real world achievements” or connecting in only a few of these five ways.  After some time however, if all five of these connections aren’t satisfied, it can often leave someone wondering what went wrong, whereas in truth they didn’t find someone who satisfied all of their connection needs to begin with.  Clearly there are many other elements that influence our own ability to be satisfied in general, but finding someone who is highly compatible will definitely make things easier!

Therefore, when looking for the perfect match it is of the utmost importance to find someone who:

  • ·Relates to the world in a way you value and enjoy
  • ·Satisfies all of your Fundamental Five connection needs

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Jasmin Terrany, LMHC is a licensed psychotherapist with both a Master of Arts and Master of Education in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University; as well as bachelor degree in Spanish from Tufts University. She has a Life Therapy private practice in Sunny Isles, Miami which integrates psychotherapy & life coaching with mindfulness & meditation. In her private practice Jasmin works mostly with women ages 20 -50 and specializes in the following areas:

  •  Developing self-love and confidence
  • Improving relationships
  • Releasing stress, anxiety and sadness
  • Creating a healthy relationship with food and body
  • Uncovering your life’s purpose
  • Overcoming your quarter life crisis

In addition to working with individuals and couples, she has an inspirational blog with almost 4,000 followers. She gives classes, workshops, and guest lectures. Jasmin is also currently in the process of co-authoring a book with New York Times bestselling author and world renowned spiritual activist Marianne Williamson, called “Love and Oneness”.

Two of her deepest passions are travel and spiritual growth. She has studied, volunteered or traveled in over 40 different countries, and has focused much of her life and education around learning about different cultures and people. Jasmin has also studied mindfulness practices and meditation extensively and has done various meditation and yoga retreats around the globe, including a 10 day retreat in complete silence.

To learn more about Jasmin you can visit her website www.JasminBalance.com.

This post was also published on Jasmin’s Balance Blog.

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