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Are you attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

Do you keep attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

I dated a guy in the past where the chemistry was off the charts.  Later, I realized that we weren’t even on the same page with important values, and he was not emotionally available.  After weeks of tumultion, I thought to myself, “Am I really doing this again?”



Chemistry can be addicting at first, but it helps you overlook the real qualities this man or woman may or may not be offering.  Also, you get so caught up in the chemistry drug that when it wears off you realize that sometimes this person might even be a bit crazy,  narcissistic or a complete mess.  Can you relate?

Lesson learned.  I no longer jumped into relationships based on chemistry alone because it just plain sucked.  As a Love Coach, I experienced lessons and growth first hand, so I can share the wisdom I gained to overcome the past experiences to clients.  Hopefully, they don’t have to go through the same challenges and obstacles that I have in dating and love.

Now here’s the scoop:

1)  Don’t sleep with someone right away.  Get to know someone first before you give them the prize, which is you.  Men, I know you may be thinking that I am nuts, but do you really want to be entangled with a woman who goes crazy on you.  Women you might mistake the chemistry for the connection you deeply crave, but wait to give yourself away to a man sexually.  Trust me on this.

2) Create a best friend ship as the foundation.  You’ve heard stories of people who are divorced and literally hate their ex.  I can see they probably didn’t create a best friend first.  A best friend has your back, listens to you, pays attention to what you want, and you can trust this person.  Does his or her actions reflect what they say?  Is it easy to be with person or is it a struggle?

Find Your Dream Partner with Antoinette Cabral

3) Listen to your intuition.  If a man says, he is not ready to be in a long term relationship, he is actually telling you the truth.  Women, don’t try change his mind. You aren’t on the same page as him, and let him go.  Men, if you don’t have a good feeling about her, then stand up for yourself and tell her that you are no longer interested in dating her.

I work with clients around the country, and I hear the same story over again.  “I have such great chemistry with him/her?”  Do yourself a favor and if you are not on the same page, then don’t sleep with him or her until you have found your best friend.  Create a boundary around your heart’s desires and say yes to what you truly want inside.

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Last, you can sign up for my FREE VIDEO SERIES:  Break the cycle of attracting the wrong relationships, and Find Your Dream Partner.  Go to http://findyourdreampartner.com

Have a beautiful day!

With love,

Antoinette Cabral Find Your Dream Partner


Dating Advice for Men: Do you keep attracting the “wrong” women?

How are you?  Have you been enjoying your Summer so far?

I have been spending lots of time in the mountains.  It’s gorgeous here.

Just wanted to check in and see how you are doing in your dating and love life?

Do you keep attracting the wrong women?

Dating Advice for Men
Do you keep attracting women who are NEVER happy?



When working with my clients, I see that some of you men keep attracting the “wrong” women is because of these reasons:

  1. You have to find happiness within you before you can find happiness within a relationship.
  2. You MUST heal from your past relationship before you can move onto the next relationship.  Time does help to heal, but forgiveness of the past relationship is essential if you are going to find a happy and drama-free woman.
  3. You have to understand her language.  Women like connection, communication and cuddling.  Yes, we are more emotional.  We want to be close to you.

If you are confused and want clarity, I am offering 5 complimentary Find Your Dream Woman Sessions to men who are serious about finding love.

Click here to book your FREE SESSION!

These sessions are here to help you find out where your dating and love blind spots are.

The men I work with are:

  • Meeting amazing woman who they would never meet before.
  • Feeling confident and embracing their power as men.
  • Having amazing adventures with their new women.
  • Feeling fulfilled having a beautiful and happy woman who believes and supports them.

I look forward to supporting you in finding your dream woman.

Thanks for being awesome and have a beautiful day!

Antoinette Cabral

Antoinette Cabral, Dating Coach for MenDating Expert for Women and Men


How to be sensual with a man on the Passion Muse Show on HealthyLife.net

I had a blast on Mia Whitmore’s show the Passion Muse sharing with the audience how to truly embrace feminine magnetism.  While on the show, the producer was enjoying our conversation:



First Date Tips: Connection vs. Compatability

Have you been getting your flirt on??

Getting your flirt on the feminine way, is so much FUN because it’s about you radiating your feminine magnetism from within.

Remember:  Men crave your feminine ways!

After you meet a man that you like, then it’s time to get to know him on your first date!

Your first date is not to meet your soul mate, but to see how compatible you truly are with him.

You might have a connection with man and he might be a really great guy, but are you truly compatible in the long term?

In my up coming program that is starting this Wednesday, MANIFEST THE   RIGHT MAN ~ THE EMPOWERED FEMININE WAY!, I share with you the   7 steps a woman should use to get to know a man to see if he is the right man!

I will give you two of the 7 steps right here:

Step 1: Check out his values when it comes to marriage.  Not all men want to get married!

Step 2: HAVE FUN!! There is nothing like being around a woman who keeps things light and fun!  Bring out your feminine and fun side, because this is truly IRRESISTIBLE to men.  Who doesn’t like to have fun?

I can’t wait to share the 7 steps in my upcoming program!  It’s going to be packed with juicy information.  Plus, it will be A LOT of fun because I am fun!

How important is it for you to meet the right man?

Are you tired of attracting the wrong man over and over again?

Do you want to embrace your feminine magnetism and manifest a thriving, healthy and sexy relationship?

What are you waiting for?



5 WEEK CALL SERIES includes videos, audios and 24 page welcome packet!

Wednesdays, March 28, 2012 to April 25 6:00-7:15pm PST USA

Only $497

My hourly rate is $347, so if you’ve been wanting to coach with me, this is your chance!!  I only offer this program LIVE once a year!


Antoinette is a passionate, playful and authentic mentor and I’ve appreciated her perspective on approaching life and dating relationships for many years. I find her seminars thought provoking and highly recommend them to any woman seeking a deeper, more satisfying relationship with herself. “  Maryanne Van Meter, San Diego, CA is now married with her first child with this man.

Dating Advice for Women: Radiating Feminine Magnetism and Meeting Men

Hello beautiful!

Happy Magical Monday!

Your own feminine magnetism is enchanting and magical to the right man!

Embracing your empowered feminine ways is very magical like this rainbow.

AND the right man can feel this way around YOU!  Remember how I talk about body language.  Your body language is 70% of communication, and he is MAGNETIZED BY YOU because you are magic to him.

I’ve seen it in my own life, and in my clients lives.

A client of mine, Jane, is having soooo much fun embracing her radiant feminine energy.  In one day she had a date with a handsome French Moroccan man and the same day met a handsome Italian man while riding the bus to museum.  How fun!  All in one day…..she’s been practicing being in her radiant feminine magnetism and they want to get to know her!

You can meet the right man anywhere when you are radiating your feminine magnetism…and it’s a signal for him to approach you.

I will say this again and again….MEN CRAVE YOUR FEMININE WAYS!

This is your best asset when it comes to dating and love.

“Feminine Magnetism” is available to ANYONE if you practice and receive support!

Men don’t want to be around a woman that is hard, linear,  and rough like them.

This is how you meet great men, by using your own “feminine magnetism”.

Want to learn more?

Join me for my next unbelievable FREE CALL valued at $97

Wednesday, March 21, 2012  6pm PST, 9pm EST

“The Art of Flirting and Meeting the Right Man ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!”

Click here to register and get the call details!

Jane will share her story of how she went from man hating to man loving, from man repellant to man magnet in a few months!

Jane is 50 years old and is embracing her “feminine magnetism”!

You definitely want to be on the call LIVE because I will be giving away $500 worth of BONUSES!

Please do me a favor, and forward this email to at least three friends right now. 🙂

Click here to register and get the call details!

To your love and dating success,


Antoinette Cabral

Manifest the Right Man
by Embracing a Female Sensual Lifestyle
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How to be sensual with a man: My own personal journey with men!

One thing I know for sure is how to be sensual with a man, how to attract men,  how to flirt with men, how to heal from a heart break and how to break the pattern of attracting the wrong man.

Let me tell you sister, when you learn how to heal from a heart break, build your self esteem and confidence, and learn how to flirt and be feminine around a man...A WHOLE NEW WORLD OF DATING AND LOVE CAN BEGIN!


YES!  You heard me right…dating and finding the right man or lover can be soooooooo exciting and so much fun!! Whoooohoooooo!!

For many years, while all my girlfriends and clients were obsessed with finding the right man, I loved just meeting men, getting to know men, flirting with men and dating several men at the same time. How do you think I got all my juicy information that I share with you?? I’ve read a plethora of books about men, taken workshops by relationship experts, and received personal coaching by dating and love coaches,  and more than anything, it was my experience with all these great men, and not so great men that gave me great and unique insight into the world of dating and love.

Here are some of my experiences:

  • I have my heart broken way too many times.
  • I thought I was in love, announced it to all my family and friends to find out the very next day that it wasn’t going to work out 🙁  That was humiliating!
  • I’ve been proposed to a handful of times, but wasn’t ready.
  • Men have rejected me over and over again.
  • I was betrayed by a man, and thought I couldn’t trust again, but learned to love again.
  • If I liked a guy, I would pursue him! Wrong….that goes against natural law!
  • Men have lied to me just to try to get into my pants 🙁
  • For many years, I was closed off sexually.  Making loves was painful and excruciating.  Now, I am able to have full body orgasms without physical contact.
  • I’ve been a muse more than once, where men have told me that I was the BEST thing that has happened to them.


When clients come to me for dating and relationship help, I know first hand on how to help them, and not just because I studied it, taken workshops and ready books on men, but because I know first hand how to MANIFEST THE RIGHT MAN ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!

  • I’ve recently helped a client heal her rejection issues with her dad which keeps showing up in her love life…men who reject her for another woman.  She is now loving herself through the process, and ready to manifest a healthy relationship!
  • A client in her 50s had bad experiences with men, didn’t trust men, and now is embracing here empowered feminine ways where younger men in their 30s are pursuing her!
  • A recent client asked me why she keeps attracting all the horn dogs. She say, “They just want get into my pants right away.”  I said that she is leaking her senxual energy and she is learning how to set boundaries with men.  Women set the pace when it comes to relationship!   A healthy man respects a healthy woman with boundaries. If he doesn’t, then MOVE ON!
  • A male client of mine has called in this amazing woman who is a match for his new empowered masculine ways.  He told me the other day, “Whatever you are teaching me about energy, attraction and dating, this new woman is says the same things that you do.  I have never felt this chemistry before with a woman, and it’s not just physical!” He is the perfect example of the type of man you would want to call in!

Are you ready to take this journey with me??

Manifest the Right Man ~ The Empowered Feminine Way!

I have my newest 5 week group coaching program starting

March 28, 2012 at 6pm PST!

Only $497

Space is limited!

I have changed the format to fit your needs, and have it easy for you to SAY YES to yourself!

Click here to register for the program!!

If you have any questions about the program, please email me at info@antoinettecabral.com. I would love to answer any of your questions on dating and love!

Have a beautiful and sensual day!

To your love and dating success,

Antoinette Cabral

How to be attractive to a man | How to be sensual with a man

Let me ask you this:


Is the dating world confusing and overwhelming?

Are you making BIG mistakes while dating and don’t know your own dating blindspots?

Because if he’s not asking you out or calling you back, then something went wrong!



Mark your calendar now for January 3, 2012 and January 11 at 5pm PST, 8pm EST

I will be hosting an important FREE 2-Part Call Series where I share my secrets to help you “Manifest The Right Man for 2012”!!

If you HAVE NOT succeeded in dating and love,

then join me for this important call and make 2012, the YEAR YOU MANIFEST THE RIGHT MAN!

You might be making a BIG MISTAKE while dating and finding love and actually repelling him!

One mistake women make is having HIGH EXPECTATIONS during the courting and dating process instead of HAVING FUN!!

Let me tell you, that men want to be with a fun and feminine woman. If you don’t ignite that playful and light spirit, then you won’t ENCHANT HIM.

I know there are many men from my own personal experience who just KNOW right away that he wants to be with YOU! Continue reading How to be attractive to a man | How to be sensual with a man

How to be sensual and flirt with a man by Antoinette Cabral

I love working with clients on how to be sensual with a man.  It’s been very confusing for women to understand the power of attraction.  Most women have been so disconnected from their feminine and sensual power….the things that the right man absolutely crave in a woman.  She is either needy by revolving her life around a the man’s schedule or she’s too independent, won’t allow herself to be feminine around a man and receive the gifts that he wants to give to her.  Also, she might be disconnected from her sensual nature.  These are big deal breakers for the right man.

I’ve been working closely with a couple of matchmakers in Beverly Hills, and I love comparing notes.  We agree that women don’t really understand the dynamics to BE THAT WOMAN that a man will claim and die for.  Yes!  It is said that the right man will do what it takes to be with that woman that inspires, ignites and opens up his heart.  He will want to protect you, be your hero, give you everything, and even die for you.  The art of being a true Goddess hasn’t been cultivated in woman, and I want to share with some top ways to be able to be this woman.

1. Radiate your feminine nature:  If you you’ve been in your head all day from a very masculine job and don’t transition to the feminine he will see you as a friend because your body language and energy is not emitting femininity.  Dates are NOT interviews! Or maybe you are the one who likes to take charge, then a man isn’t going to want to connect with you.  You are competing with him.  This will confuse him. Embrace  your feminine essence and he  will be enchanted by YOU!

2.  Let go of negative beliefs about men.  Do you have negative beliefs about men?  Do you think that men are less than a woman or you think they are stupid?  Are you jaded by men or have been hurt in the past?  It’s time to heal the past.  If you don’t like men or you don’t love men, then you aren’t going to attract a man that’s going to adore you or claim you.  The beliefs that you carry are going to show up in your dating and love life.  I know this from experience.   I kept attracting men over and over again that rejected me.  I had huge rejection issues from the past.  It was time to heal this belief.   When I did, I stopped attracting men who rejected me.

3.  Embrace your sensual nature.  Men love a woman who connected to her body, her sensual nature.  He will notice how you move, how you connect to your body, how you invite pleasure into your life.  When you experience pleasure, he will want to experience that same pleasure with YOU.  Let’s face it, humas are sexual beings.  Men produce testosterone, which creates sex drive and aggressive energy.  Men love sex.  It’s their nature.  If you are not connected to your body, and are not open sensually, then this man may want to find sex somewhere else.  I hear this from men.  So open up to your sensual potential.  I can show you a safe way to embrace your sensual nature and expand into feelings of bliss, beauty and pleasure daily!

When you start to embrace a Female Sensual Lifestyle, then a man will notice YOU!  He will want to claim you as his woman.  He will notice that you are different.  You will inspire him to be a better man.  You will invite him into a world that he has never experienced before.  He will want to keep coming back for more….and you won’t want to stray because he knows that you are the woman he wants to keep….ALWAYS!

If you have any questions, email me at info@antoinettecabral.com. Email me for your complimentary “Empowered Sensuality Session” today!

Have a beautiful day!


Important First Date Tips from Dating Coach for Women, Antoinette Cabral

Are you nervous about your first date?

Do you want to learn how to be sensual with a man?

Do you come on too strong that he doesn’t call you back for another date?

Do you know how to prepare for your date to make him fall for you?

Don’t make the mistakes that I have and watch this video now!


These are IMPORTANT tips for your first date.

If you are tired of attracting the wrong man?

Do you want to learn how to magnetize the right man to YOU?

Contact me at info@antoinettecabral.com for a complimentary MAN MAGNET SESSION to find out how!





Authentic Confidence is Sexy!

Authentic Confidence Is Sexy!

Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from meeting Mr. Right?

A couple of things I know for sure are that

• Confidence = Sexy!

• Authentic Inner Happiness = Sexy!

• Desperation = Un-sexy…

• Displeasure with life = Un-sexy…

Most people live on “auto pilot”, mindlessly acting in the same manner over and over
without thought. When making the decision to change old patterns and behaviors for new
positive ones it takes both mindfulness and intention. Old habits die hard. Here are some
simple steps on how to

Continue reading Authentic Confidence is Sexy!