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Dating Tips For Men: Make Her Want You Even More For Just In Time For Valentine’s Day

Do you want to know what a happy and Drama-free woman wants for Valentine’s Day?  She wants something more than pick up techniques, strategies or what money can buy.  I have three important secrets to share with you to sweetly seduce her.  Shhhhhhhhhhh!  Can you keep a secret?

1. Embrace your masculine nature.  But, don’t waver into your energy.  Women can sense energy, especially the intention behind your body language. So, become the masculine to her feminine.  Allow yourself to be solid and strong, so she can softly surrender to you.

Advice: You must be emotionally and energetically available for her to open up to you.

Help find your woman2. Connect to her heart, not just her body.  The key to a woman is her through her heart.  Her feelings are more intense and deeper than the average man.  Her mind and body are interconnected – a woman never separates these two entities. You will find that her heart yearns for deep connection and devotion. Women are able to listen and understand where people’s emotions come from.

Advice: Listen to her when she is sharing – not just hear her.  Open up and share with her a part of you that may be vulnerable.  This will deepen the connection.

3. Sweetly seduce her with your own sexy and straightforward communication.  Do you like being noticed about the positive you bring to life?  Well, so does she! Look at her deeply in the eyes. Tell her that you think that she is incredibly beautiful and special every time you think about her. Let her know that you want her by returning eye contact, attention, or even her calls and texts. Touch her hair or her skin softly while you two are together to communicate the fact that she belongs in your life. Your relationship with her is the reason why you look forward to the future. Feel it. Say it. Mean it. She will feel safe with you.

Advice: Follow these steps and your sweet Valentine seduction has begun.

Women deeply crave emotional connection, affection and communication more than you realize.  The more you learn these tools, you will find an amazing woman who will cherish you and bring out the best in you.  When you deepen your connection to a woman, you will deepen your relationship in more ways than one.

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Dating Advice for Men: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

Because I am a Dating & Relationship Expert for Men, I can spot things in people right away.  I was at a party last week.  I was casually talking to a guy named Jeff.   He asked me what I did.  I let him know that I help men find their dream woman.  I take them through a 7 step process and look at their own unique dating and love blind spots.  After I take them through the process, the men experience profound changes in their lives, feeling more confident, embracing their masculine power, understanding women, and choosing a woman who will bring out the best in them.  They are happy.  He seemed interested in what I had to share.

I asked him about his last relationship.  He said he went through divorce.  I asked him what happened.  He said, “Well, she was super attractive and the sex was great.  She eventually pressured me into marriage.  After we got married, we had nothing in common.”  I asked him, “Did you know that you didn’t have anything in common while you were dating her?”   Jeff says, “I didn’t care.  She was hot.  I was getting laid often.  After we got married, our sex life went down hill because she wasn’t happy.  We ended up getting a divorce.”

Jeff’s need were simple.  He was attracted to his woman.  He had regular sex.  That made him happy at the moment.  I hated to break this to Jeff, but there is more to a lasting relationship than just chemistry alone.   He ended up getting married to a woman that he had NOTHING in common with.   The oxytocin that is released from her during orgasm bonded the two of them.   Once she was bonded, then the expectations go up at least 1000%.   The expectations is what you call nagging and drama.   Because he wasn’t compatible, the expectations from her were never fulfilled, thus the divorce.

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Dating Tips for Men: How to be IRRESISTIBLE to a high quality woman by Antoinette Cabral

This article was first published in YourTango.com

It’s much different than what most men think!

A high quality woman has many suitors.  Why?  Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to.  She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way.  Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything.  She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.

A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life!  She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way.  She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her.  She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you.  Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.

You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language.  She can light up a room.  Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.

You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her.  You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic.  She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality.  The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong.  She will not settle. 

I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world.  With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective.  From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship.  60% of divorce is initiated by women.  Why?  Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.

Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy.  She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either.  Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.

It’s not about how hot you are.  Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can.  If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off!  Good looks alone can only get you so far. 

Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you.  She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.

How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman? 

Provide vulnerability:  A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings.  He goes into his cave. He closes off.  In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level. 

A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe.  Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain.  The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.  Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!

Learn from your past relationships:  A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware.  She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman.  She doesn’t hold onto the past.  She knows how to forgive and let go.  She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new.  When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship.  You will stand out from other men!!

She is a flower:  If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.

I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!!  Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you?  She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.   

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

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Antoinette Cabral
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men
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Dating Tips for Men: What turns a modern woman on by Antoinette Cabral?

This is first published in YourTango.com.

Do you want me to help you find a woman?  You are visual.  You see an attractive woman, and you notice her body, the color of her skin, her gorgeous hair, the shape of her breasts, her buttocks, legs and her own body language.  You start to have sexual thoughts about this woman and are completely aroused.  If she smiles at you and gives you eye contact, then the arousal increases due to the levels of testosterone you produce as a man. I know you won’t admit this to most women, but I do know that your “thing” has a mind of it’s own.

For a woman, her heart and feelings are the center of her universe.  Current studies show that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain, which is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.

Here is how I can help you find a woman.  To turn a woman on, you must learn her language.  A woman’s language is through “connection”.  By learning and understanding her language, then you can truly gain her trust.  When a woman trusts you this means she feels protected by you and can surrender to you.  When she can surrender and trust you, then she can open up to you in more ways than one.  Hint, hint!  Yes, this can lead to ecstatic orgasms and love making for her.  You will be a stallion in the bedroom. Sounds hot, right?

Here are top 3 ways to turn a modern woman on:

Connect to your woman:  Remember a woman’s largest sex organ is her heart!  She wants to “connect” with you.  When talking be present with her.  Look at her in the eyes.  Touch her hair.  Listen to her.  Pay attention to what she is talking about.  The more you “connect” with her, the more she will gain your trust.  Remember, trust and feeling safe are some of the best foreplay a woman can receive. 

Notice her beauty:  Although a high quality woman loves herself and treats her own body like a temple, she also enjoys receiving compliments.  Tell her how beautiful she is.  Share how amazing she is.  Let her know how important she is to you.  Don’t just say it, but mean it!   Notice how she glows after you compliment her.

Don’t rush into love making:  It takes most women between 15-20 minutes to orgasm.  Connect to her.  Make her feel safe.  Notice her beauty.  See her entire body as an erogenous zone because it is.  Kiss her entire body, and don’t go straight for her vagina.  This will prepare her body for you.  When you connect to her heart, she will open up like a flower to YOU!  Make sure she receives her orgasm before yours.  When she does, she will be coming back for more and more and more.

If you start to use these three tools, then you will be a KEEPER to a high quality and modern woman.  You will stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!

If you are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you, then start to implement the 3 tools above.  Because she trusts you, she will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.  Sounds amazing right? 

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in the book:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

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Much love, 
Antoinette Cabral
Dating and Relationship Coach for Men, Los Angeles

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Dating Tips for Men: What woman really want from Men?

Kathryn Williams
Kathryn Williams

 

As a forty-something woman in love, I can offer some insight about what woman really want. Before I found my soul mate, I had to first find happiness, on my own, without a man in my life. It took years of failed relationships before I realized self-created happiness is critical. Can you really expect your partner to be your end all and be all? Sure, you can expect this but if you want a healthy relationship, you must realize your mate can’t be your sole source for happiness; this fulfillment manifests from within and anything else is icing on the cake!

We want different things from our partners during different stages of our lives. If you’re looking for a booty call or to be the puppeteer of your partner (without true give and take), then this isn’t the article for you. But, if you’re looking for a healthy, long lasting relationship, one that thrives on love, read on my friend!

The true foundation for a healthy relationship is reflective of partnership. It’s not one-sided; it requires give and take. This truth must be realized to embrace love whole-heartedly. At times, one partner will be facing hardship and during this period, the other must step up. This is cyclical; roles will reverse at times. Love relationships are not perfect; they will be flawed. We must accept this reality, if not, the fairy tale illusion of perfection will cause failure. If you’re not honest by taking ownership of your actions and expectations, change, otherwise, you’ll attract similar characteristics from your line up of future inadequate partners.

A healthy relationship must have a genuine foundation to manifest success in love. Women want to find a partner whose eyes are reflective of their own heart’s desires. This doesn’t mean we can’t accomplish fulfilling our heart’s desires without this person but instead, it means this individual will encourage and support our passion because our happiness is important! It is essential the partnership is fully blended, mind, body and spirit; this energizes the lives of both individuals involves. This heavenly fusion, when genuine and vulnerable, will shock the mortality and awaken the souls of those involved. It manifests love that renews a zest for life; it is a cherished and special bond. We want a union that celebrates our lives together, and fuels courage to overcome life’s adversity. The entwined collective strength of this partnership will empower the individuals in the relationship to brave life’s trials and tribulations knowing each significant other will always have the other’s back. Although you can’t walk in each other’s shoes, together you create an intangible force that you’re able to carry with you to help you conquer any battle! Women want to feel special, to know their existence is needed. We want a relationship authentically blended with love and spirituality. Realize this, put it out there, and manifest it into your life; it’s possible. I know this because I’m experiencing true love and you can too!

Kathryn J. Williams is an author and artist who works to increase spiritual wellbeing through inspirational poetry and unique commissioned drawings. Her book, ‘What Can I Say When Words Escape Me, being present in times of sorrow,’ (2009) was written to help those suffering sudden life hardships. In her business Lifetime Art Impressions, LLC, her clients commission oil pastel drawings, personalized inspirational poetry, and unique bereavement products. She is currently working on her second book, which is reflective of her journey, creativity and healing.

Website link: http://www.lifetimeartimpressions.com

Blog link: http://www.kathrynjwilliams.blogspot.com

Examiner column link: http://www.examiner.com/healthy-living-in-detroit/kathryn-williams

Open to Hope column link: http://www.opentohope.com/author/kathryn-williams/

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Dating Tips for Men: What I Really Want In A Relationship by Joan Meijer

Because I am on the dating sites at age 73 I think about this quite a bit, probably because I get very few positive responses to my description about myself. Most of the men on those sites seem to spend their lives at the gym. I expected golfers. I was surprised by the weight lifters. They also seem to be longing for the wives they’ve lost. Either I am so out of touch that I don’t share the same planet (which is certainly possible) or they seem to be saying the things they think I want to hear. They extol the virtues of holding hands by the fireplace and taking long walks on the beach – I think they’re more in touch with their feminine side than I am. Actually, I wanted that when I was 20.

Today, as a novelist consumed with selling my books, I want a relationship that allows me to be self-fulfilled and utterly selfish. I want someone who is as busy and productive as I am. Who drops by for coffee and perhaps great sex for a couple of hours and then who rushes home to engage in his own selfish interests. I want a man who is as interested in ideas and projects and making the most of these last years of his life as I am and doesn’t have time for long strolls on the beach and sitting before a fire holding hands. I don’t care if he’s a physically fit vegan with all his teeth. What’s he interested in?

I definitely want someone who never watches TV – someone who reads books on economics and politics – someone who never wants to retire. I definitely don’t want someone who loves fishing, camping and riding motorcycles. I am completely turned off by men who offer me “security” in a way that sounds a good deal like whoring. I like being self-sufficient and I love men who support that aspect in me.

I like men who converse as opposed to delivering monologues. I have actually taken naps during phone conversations with dates who didn’t last long and the men haven’t noticed. In short I’d rather be alone than date most of the men who appear to be available to me. And most of the men who appear to be available to me aren’t attracted to me. Which is very much okay and pretty much how it’s always been.

Over the years since my divorce, nearly 30 years ago, I actually have had relationships like the one I describe. It has required finding men who are totally unavailable for one reason or another or finding  men I like and find attractive but whom I know better than to consider entering into a more conventional relationship with.

I’m not willing to settle for something less any more. Life by myself is way too interesting to be burdened by giving it up to someone who isn’t a great match.

 

Bio

Joan Meijer is the author of over 20 works of fiction and non-fiction including three thriller and one historical novel based on one of the greatest medical mysteries of all times. She has released her novels on the digital publishing houses like kindle and nook to rave reviews and five star ratings and been favorably compared to Robin Cook and Tess Gerritsen. She lives in Los Angeles and spends weekends reading to her grandson, developing in him a love of books and stories.

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What does a woman want from a man: Happiness+Respect=Love or does it?

Tamara Jackson
Tamara Jackson

 

What would it take to get a man to respect you and make you happy at the same time?

I mean why is this so hard? Well, if he truly loves you would this be too much to ask? I have had my share of men saying they love me, but when it comes to me asking if they could do certain simple things its like pulling teeth! I mean a simple foot rub, massage, bath water, and candle lit dinners are all great things but sometimes that don’t cut it, sometimes a woman wants her man to listen to her and not talk over her, and instead of dropping her off at the salon or grocery shopping, to stick around with her and spend some of that responsibility time with her. We always say quality time and in reality its responsibility time, because when they act more responsible isn’t that quality?  If you are in a relationship with a woman, men it is your responsibility to make your woman happy and make her feel special, and knowing that you will spend those extra hours out of your own comfort zone just to make her feel like a natural woman will have her feeling extra special, or will these things make you uncomfortable?

Honestly though if you truly love your woman why would this be a problem? We ask our men to show more respect which I’m sure will make more women happy/happier, and in return we can make you men more happier men, because we love and respect you! Would it hurt to open and hold a door for her, let her make certain decisions in the relationship, or allow her to be free to be herself?, its sad to say but some men actually have a problem with this…..

Speaking from my own experience, sometimes just having that love of your life by your side and support everything you do is better than a day at the spa, when the spa treatment is over (manicures, pedicures, mud masks, etc.) will you be overwhelmed enough to constantly think of that or will you more than likely find yourself thinking about how your man made you feel good and spent that time with you, causing you to be mesmerized and caught up in the thought of that moment? The pampering of a man tends to last longer! You know what would be a good idea? If they had a class on how to treat the woman you love or if men in the real world would portray the men in these romance movies, novels, etc…….

But if a man has a problem with showing you the respect and love that you deserve and you will not settle for less (because honestly sometimes we do ladies), I think that maybe you should do inventory on your relationship, because Happiness+Respect=Love or does it?

Tamara Jackson- author of Inspirations, Let Sheedom Ring (women with voices), and The Moment of Truth; has been writing since 2007, spotlighting her expertise in various blogs, and other showcases.

Tamara is known for her love of poetry, and authentic views! She is a featured contributing author in the upcoming Unstoppable Woman (by renown author and speaker Erika Gilchrist), broadening her horizons and focus, she is currently developing other avenues that support women’s growth, success, views, and more; her vision and inspirations were adapted from her own experiences involving abuse, poverty,  and more, at which she has overcome by the help of God and she is prepared to be the woman that God has called her to be……

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