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Dating Tips for Men: How to be IRRESISTIBLE to a high quality woman by Antoinette Cabral

This article was first published in YourTango.com

It’s much different than what most men think!

A high quality woman has many suitors.  Why?  Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to.  She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way.  Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything.  She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.

A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life!  She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way.  She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her.  She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you.  Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.

You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language.  She can light up a room.  Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.

You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her.  You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic.  She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality.  The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong.  She will not settle. 

I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world.  With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective.  From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship.  60% of divorce is initiated by women.  Why?  Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.

Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy.  She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either.  Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.

It’s not about how hot you are.  Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can.  If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off!  Good looks alone can only get you so far. 

Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you.  She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.

How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman? 

Provide vulnerability:  A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings.  He goes into his cave. He closes off.  In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level. 

A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe.  Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain.  The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.  Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!

Learn from your past relationships:  A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware.  She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman.  She doesn’t hold onto the past.  She knows how to forgive and let go.  She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new.  When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship.  You will stand out from other men!!

She is a flower:  If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.

I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!!  Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you?  She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.   

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then CLICK HERE to book your complimentary session!

 Please tell your friends,  and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU.Much love,
Antoinette Cabral
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men
http://GetThatOneSpecialGirl.com

Dating Tips for Men: What turns a modern woman on by Antoinette Cabral?

This is first published in YourTango.com.

Do you want me to help you find a woman?  You are visual.  You see an attractive woman, and you notice her body, the color of her skin, her gorgeous hair, the shape of her breasts, her buttocks, legs and her own body language.  You start to have sexual thoughts about this woman and are completely aroused.  If she smiles at you and gives you eye contact, then the arousal increases due to the levels of testosterone you produce as a man. I know you won’t admit this to most women, but I do know that your “thing” has a mind of it’s own.

For a woman, her heart and feelings are the center of her universe.  Current studies show that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain, which is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.

Here is how I can help you find a woman.  To turn a woman on, you must learn her language.  A woman’s language is through “connection”.  By learning and understanding her language, then you can truly gain her trust.  When a woman trusts you this means she feels protected by you and can surrender to you.  When she can surrender and trust you, then she can open up to you in more ways than one.  Hint, hint!  Yes, this can lead to ecstatic orgasms and love making for her.  You will be a stallion in the bedroom. Sounds hot, right?

Here are top 3 ways to turn a modern woman on:

Connect to your woman:  Remember a woman’s largest sex organ is her heart!  She wants to “connect” with you.  When talking be present with her.  Look at her in the eyes.  Touch her hair.  Listen to her.  Pay attention to what she is talking about.  The more you “connect” with her, the more she will gain your trust.  Remember, trust and feeling safe are some of the best foreplay a woman can receive. 

Notice her beauty:  Although a high quality woman loves herself and treats her own body like a temple, she also enjoys receiving compliments.  Tell her how beautiful she is.  Share how amazing she is.  Let her know how important she is to you.  Don’t just say it, but mean it!   Notice how she glows after you compliment her.

Don’t rush into love making:  It takes most women between 15-20 minutes to orgasm.  Connect to her.  Make her feel safe.  Notice her beauty.  See her entire body as an erogenous zone because it is.  Kiss her entire body, and don’t go straight for her vagina.  This will prepare her body for you.  When you connect to her heart, she will open up like a flower to YOU!  Make sure she receives her orgasm before yours.  When she does, she will be coming back for more and more and more.

If you start to use these three tools, then you will be a KEEPER to a high quality and modern woman.  You will stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!

If you are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you, then start to implement the 3 tools above.  Because she trusts you, she will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.  Sounds amazing right? 

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in the book:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then go to http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/ to sign up for my FREE VIDEO SERIES:  Stand out from other men, become irresistible, so she chooses YOU!  Valued at $97. 

I guarantee your life will change forever, and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU!  

Much love, 
Antoinette Cabral
Dating and Relationship Coach for Men, Los Angeles

http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/ 

 

Help me find a woman: What does a woman want from a man by Antoinette Cabral

What turns a woman on?

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Dating Tips for Men: What woman really want from Men?

Kathryn Williams
Kathryn Williams

 

As a forty-something woman in love, I can offer some insight about what woman really want. Before I found my soul mate, I had to first find happiness, on my own, without a man in my life. It took years of failed relationships before I realized self-created happiness is critical. Can you really expect your partner to be your end all and be all? Sure, you can expect this but if you want a healthy relationship, you must realize your mate can’t be your sole source for happiness; this fulfillment manifests from within and anything else is icing on the cake!

We want different things from our partners during different stages of our lives. If you’re looking for a booty call or to be the puppeteer of your partner (without true give and take), then this isn’t the article for you. But, if you’re looking for a healthy, long lasting relationship, one that thrives on love, read on my friend!

The true foundation for a healthy relationship is reflective of partnership. It’s not one-sided; it requires give and take. This truth must be realized to embrace love whole-heartedly. At times, one partner will be facing hardship and during this period, the other must step up. This is cyclical; roles will reverse at times. Love relationships are not perfect; they will be flawed. We must accept this reality, if not, the fairy tale illusion of perfection will cause failure. If you’re not honest by taking ownership of your actions and expectations, change, otherwise, you’ll attract similar characteristics from your line up of future inadequate partners.

A healthy relationship must have a genuine foundation to manifest success in love. Women want to find a partner whose eyes are reflective of their own heart’s desires. This doesn’t mean we can’t accomplish fulfilling our heart’s desires without this person but instead, it means this individual will encourage and support our passion because our happiness is important! It is essential the partnership is fully blended, mind, body and spirit; this energizes the lives of both individuals involves. This heavenly fusion, when genuine and vulnerable, will shock the mortality and awaken the souls of those involved. It manifests love that renews a zest for life; it is a cherished and special bond. We want a union that celebrates our lives together, and fuels courage to overcome life’s adversity. The entwined collective strength of this partnership will empower the individuals in the relationship to brave life’s trials and tribulations knowing each significant other will always have the other’s back. Although you can’t walk in each other’s shoes, together you create an intangible force that you’re able to carry with you to help you conquer any battle! Women want to feel special, to know their existence is needed. We want a relationship authentically blended with love and spirituality. Realize this, put it out there, and manifest it into your life; it’s possible. I know this because I’m experiencing true love and you can too!

Kathryn J. Williams is an author and artist who works to increase spiritual wellbeing through inspirational poetry and unique commissioned drawings. Her book, ‘What Can I Say When Words Escape Me, being present in times of sorrow,’ (2009) was written to help those suffering sudden life hardships. In her business Lifetime Art Impressions, LLC, her clients commission oil pastel drawings, personalized inspirational poetry, and unique bereavement products. She is currently working on her second book, which is reflective of her journey, creativity and healing.

Website link: http://www.lifetimeartimpressions.com

Blog link: http://www.kathrynjwilliams.blogspot.com

Examiner column link: http://www.examiner.com/healthy-living-in-detroit/kathryn-williams

Open to Hope column link: http://www.opentohope.com/author/kathryn-williams/

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What do women want from men? How to attract a confident and happy woman

Question from a man:  “I am a sensitive and available man.  I am still building my career, but when I tell women, it seems to turn them off.  What do I do?”

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Dating Tips for Men: What I Really Want In A Relationship by Joan Meijer

Because I am on the dating sites at age 73 I think about this quite a bit, probably because I get very few positive responses to my description about myself. Most of the men on those sites seem to spend their lives at the gym. I expected golfers. I was surprised by the weight lifters. They also seem to be longing for the wives they’ve lost. Either I am so out of touch that I don’t share the same planet (which is certainly possible) or they seem to be saying the things they think I want to hear. They extol the virtues of holding hands by the fireplace and taking long walks on the beach – I think they’re more in touch with their feminine side than I am. Actually, I wanted that when I was 20.

Today, as a novelist consumed with selling my books, I want a relationship that allows me to be self-fulfilled and utterly selfish. I want someone who is as busy and productive as I am. Who drops by for coffee and perhaps great sex for a couple of hours and then who rushes home to engage in his own selfish interests. I want a man who is as interested in ideas and projects and making the most of these last years of his life as I am and doesn’t have time for long strolls on the beach and sitting before a fire holding hands. I don’t care if he’s a physically fit vegan with all his teeth. What’s he interested in?

I definitely want someone who never watches TV – someone who reads books on economics and politics – someone who never wants to retire. I definitely don’t want someone who loves fishing, camping and riding motorcycles. I am completely turned off by men who offer me “security” in a way that sounds a good deal like whoring. I like being self-sufficient and I love men who support that aspect in me.

I like men who converse as opposed to delivering monologues. I have actually taken naps during phone conversations with dates who didn’t last long and the men haven’t noticed. In short I’d rather be alone than date most of the men who appear to be available to me. And most of the men who appear to be available to me aren’t attracted to me. Which is very much okay and pretty much how it’s always been.

Over the years since my divorce, nearly 30 years ago, I actually have had relationships like the one I describe. It has required finding men who are totally unavailable for one reason or another or finding  men I like and find attractive but whom I know better than to consider entering into a more conventional relationship with.

I’m not willing to settle for something less any more. Life by myself is way too interesting to be burdened by giving it up to someone who isn’t a great match.

 

Bio

Joan Meijer is the author of over 20 works of fiction and non-fiction including three thriller and one historical novel based on one of the greatest medical mysteries of all times. She has released her novels on the digital publishing houses like kindle and nook to rave reviews and five star ratings and been favorably compared to Robin Cook and Tess Gerritsen. She lives in Los Angeles and spends weekends reading to her grandson, developing in him a love of books and stories.

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How to love a woman | What Women Want from Men

What women want in a relationship to feel complete might surprise you!  This can be summed up on the three points of a triangle. Point 1: Women want to feel wanted. Point 2: Women want to feel respected. Point 3: They want to be physically touched (in a variety of loving ways). If the partner can enhance their sense of security and safety, too, it’s a home run.

Here are the components in detail, and how women can take leadership to enhance these aspects in any relationship:

Women want to feel wanted: This is all about being number one in their partner’s life. Women like to know that out of all the women in the world (mother-in-laws and kids included), that they are at the top of his list. A passionate look in the eye or a love note can remind any woman that she’s desired more than anything else.

Common Sense Tip: Most males need to be taught this step. First, decide what makes you feel wanted, whether it’s an unexpected hug or date night dinner, and then let him know. Saying thank you to his gestures of love offers positive reinforcement, too.

Women want to feel respected: Respect is about being admired and revered. Whether she is admired for her ability to have a career, manage money, creatively solve problems, or effectively run a household, women like to know they are valued by their partner.

Common Sense Tip: Again, open communication is essential here. He might already respect you for numerous reasons, but women can take the guesswork out of the process by freely discussing what’s important to you. This can include sharing thoughts about a book you’re reading or reminding your man that you’d like him to listen to what you have to say. This must all be done in a kind and timely fashion, of course.

Women want to be lovingly touched: While physical touch in a relationship might be instantly associated with sex, it means much more than that. Touch is about holding hands, leading her by the small of her back, or a light kiss in public.

Common Sense Tip: Tell him what you desire. Instead of assuming he knows what you want, take the lead in telling your partner how you’d like to be touched. You might discover what he feels comfortable with and what he doesn’t. I mean, who knows, kissing in public might be embarrassing to him. By opening up communication, and touch, you enhance this point on your triangle.

Women want to feel secure:                              

The core of the female triangle is feeling that they are safe and secure. Part of this necessity for protection evolves from the maternal care-taking instinct, even if no physical children are present. Security refers to financial stability as well as security in the relationship itself. Asking to be an active part of financial decisions and your financial future boosts this sense of security, as well as feeling of respect, in the relationship.

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How to Love A Woman: 5 Ways to be Truly Satisfied

In the dating world today, it can often be difficult to figure out if someone is the “right” match.  So often the questions come up, “Am I expecting too much? Will I never be satisfied? Should I settle? Since I never suggest settling, I created a theory that may be helpful for those who are trying to figure it out…to start, there are 2 main questions that one should ask him or herself when questioning forever with a mate.

1) Who is this person in relation to the real world?

What do they do? How do they act? What is their life like etc.? This often turns people on or off prematurely.  i.e. “He is a doctor and loves kids! We are perfect for each other!”

2) Who is this person in relation to me?

What is your actual connection like? Do you connect in some or all of the ways that are most important to you? This is where my “Fundamental Five Theory” comes into play, because often times people “jump in” or reject prematurely based on the type of connections they may or may not have.

Who is this person in relation to me?”

I think that each person requires a certain level of connection in each of the following areas to be truly satisfied in a relationship.

The Fundamental Five Ways to Connect with your Partner

1)    Intellectual: Can this person connect with me intellectually?

2) Emotional: Can this person understand/handle my emotions? Do I feel comfortable sharing?

3) Spiritual: Does this person share or respect my spiritual/non-spiritual beliefs?

4) Chemistry: Does it feel natural and enjoyable to be in each other’s physical presence?

5) Lifestyle: If I were to be dropped off into his/her “world” would it feel comfortable? (i.e. culture, eating habits, sleeping patterns, cleanliness, social habits, health, hobbies, etc.)

“Why doesn’t this feel right?” Often people start a relationship based on the excitement that comes with idealizing a person’s “real world achievements” or connecting in only a few of these five ways.  After some time however, if all five of these connections aren’t satisfied, it can often leave someone wondering what went wrong, whereas in truth they didn’t find someone who satisfied all of their connection needs to begin with.  Clearly there are many other elements that influence our own ability to be satisfied in general, but finding someone who is highly compatible will definitely make things easier!

Therefore, when looking for the perfect match it is of the utmost importance to find someone who:

  • ·Relates to the world in a way you value and enjoy
  • ·Satisfies all of your Fundamental Five connection needs

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Jasmin Terrany, LMHC is a licensed psychotherapist with both a Master of Arts and Master of Education in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University; as well as bachelor degree in Spanish from Tufts University. She has a Life Therapy private practice in Sunny Isles, Miami which integrates psychotherapy & life coaching with mindfulness & meditation. In her private practice Jasmin works mostly with women ages 20 -50 and specializes in the following areas:

  •  Developing self-love and confidence
  • Improving relationships
  • Releasing stress, anxiety and sadness
  • Creating a healthy relationship with food and body
  • Uncovering your life’s purpose
  • Overcoming your quarter life crisis

In addition to working with individuals and couples, she has an inspirational blog with almost 4,000 followers. She gives classes, workshops, and guest lectures. Jasmin is also currently in the process of co-authoring a book with New York Times bestselling author and world renowned spiritual activist Marianne Williamson, called “Love and Oneness”.

Two of her deepest passions are travel and spiritual growth. She has studied, volunteered or traveled in over 40 different countries, and has focused much of her life and education around learning about different cultures and people. Jasmin has also studied mindfulness practices and meditation extensively and has done various meditation and yoga retreats around the globe, including a 10 day retreat in complete silence.

To learn more about Jasmin you can visit her website www.JasminBalance.com.

This post was also published on Jasmin’s Balance Blog.

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