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Dating Advice for Men: Chemistry vs. Compatibility

Because I am a Dating & Relationship Expert for Men, I can spot things in people right away.  I was at a party last week.  I was casually talking to a guy named Jeff.   He asked me what I did.  I let him know that I help men find their dream woman.  I take them through a 7 step process and look at their own unique dating and love blind spots.  After I take them through the process, the men experience profound changes in their lives, feeling more confident, embracing their masculine power, understanding women, and choosing a woman who will bring out the best in them.  They are happy.  He seemed interested in what I had to share.

I asked him about his last relationship.  He said he went through divorce.  I asked him what happened.  He said, “Well, she was super attractive and the sex was great.  She eventually pressured me into marriage.  After we got married, we had nothing in common.”  I asked him, “Did you know that you didn’t have anything in common while you were dating her?”   Jeff says, “I didn’t care.  She was hot.  I was getting laid often.  After we got married, our sex life went down hill because she wasn’t happy.  We ended up getting a divorce.”

Jeff’s need were simple.  He was attracted to his woman.  He had regular sex.  That made him happy at the moment.  I hated to break this to Jeff, but there is more to a lasting relationship than just chemistry alone.   He ended up getting married to a woman that he had NOTHING in common with.   The oxytocin that is released from her during orgasm bonded the two of them.   Once she was bonded, then the expectations go up at least 1000%.   The expectations is what you call nagging and drama.   Because he wasn’t compatible, the expectations from her were never fulfilled, thus the divorce.

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Help me find a woman & How to captivate a quality woman’s attention by Antoinette Cabral

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Are you tired of the drama queens, the hot messes and the gold diggers?

Are you tired of attracting the wrong woman?

Are you successful at work, but not at love?

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Dating Tips for Men: What does a high quality woman really want from a man?

A high quality woman is the type of woman that you normally don’t meet at a bar, club or party.  This type of woman usually hangs out with her girlfriends, at the yoga studio, Whole Foods or a women’s business event.  One thing you’ll notice about her is her positive energy and the happiness that radiates from her.

I know many amazing and  awesome women because they are my clients, friends and in my social network.   I meet these women weekly and when I travel.  Problem is many of these gorgeous and amazing women are SINGLE!!  

Do you want inside secret on what this type of woman is looking for in a man??

If you can keep a secret, then I will share with you 3 secrets on how to capture this modern woman’s heart.

1.  Quality Connection:  In the past, it was the man’s role to financially provide for the women and your children.  The modern woman enjoys making her own money.  She will also gladly accept a gift or a dinner out if that is what you want to provide for her.  Want to learn secret number one?  The modern woman wants a quality connection with you.  The limbic region of the woman’s brain is twice the size of a man’s.  The limbic region is in charge of feelings and connection.  The nature of a woman is to connect.  She wants to share feelings.  If you learn how to provide “connection” with a  woman, then she can feel safe with you.

2.  Trust:  I know you men are visual.  When you first see a woman, you check her physical appearance.  If you aren’t physically attracted to a woman, then you won’t be sexually attracted to her.  For a woman, the key to attraction is through her heart.  Make her feel safe.  Connect to her.  Make her feel special.  If a woman can trust you, then you open up a whole new universe with her….in more ways than one.  

3.  Notice her beauty!  When your woman is happy, then you are happy.  You are happier when your woman is happy and content.  One way to make her happy is by complimenting your woman.  “I love that color on you.  That brings out your eyes.”  When you authentically compliment a woman, she will notice that you are paying attention to her.  Notice how much happy your woman is when you compliment her.  She will have a glow about her for days.  Hint, hint!  

This photo is a picture of my sister and I on Maui.  This is what we look like when we are happy and glowing.  You want your woman to have this same glow. 🙂

Now that you have learned these powerful secrets to capture a quality woman’s attention, please put them to use.  Stick with me, I will share with you the keys to the kingdom!

If you would like additional support, then please CLICK HERE for a complimentary “Get That One Special Girl” Session.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Have a beautiful day!

Antoinette Cabral

Dating & Relationship Expert for Men

Dating Tips for Men: How to be IRRESISTIBLE to a high quality woman by Antoinette Cabral

This article was first published in YourTango.com

It’s much different than what most men think!

A high quality woman has many suitors.  Why?  Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to.  She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way.  Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything.  She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.

A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life!  She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way.  She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her.  She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you.  Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.

You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language.  She can light up a room.  Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.

You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her.  You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic.  She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality.  The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong.  She will not settle. 

I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world.  With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective.  From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship.  60% of divorce is initiated by women.  Why?  Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.

Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy.  She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either.  Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.

It’s not about how hot you are.  Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can.  If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off!  Good looks alone can only get you so far. 

Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you.  She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.

How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman? 

Provide vulnerability:  A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings.  He goes into his cave. He closes off.  In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level. 

A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe.  Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain.  The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.  Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!

Learn from your past relationships:  A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware.  She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman.  She doesn’t hold onto the past.  She knows how to forgive and let go.  She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new.  When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship.  You will stand out from other men!!

She is a flower:  If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.

I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!!  Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you?  She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.   

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then CLICK HERE to book your complimentary session!

 Please tell your friends,  and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU.Much love,
Antoinette Cabral
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men
http://GetThatOneSpecialGirl.com

Dating Tips for Men: What turns a modern woman on by Antoinette Cabral?

This is first published in YourTango.com.

Do you want me to help you find a woman?  You are visual.  You see an attractive woman, and you notice her body, the color of her skin, her gorgeous hair, the shape of her breasts, her buttocks, legs and her own body language.  You start to have sexual thoughts about this woman and are completely aroused.  If she smiles at you and gives you eye contact, then the arousal increases due to the levels of testosterone you produce as a man. I know you won’t admit this to most women, but I do know that your “thing” has a mind of it’s own.

For a woman, her heart and feelings are the center of her universe.  Current studies show that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain, which is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.

Here is how I can help you find a woman.  To turn a woman on, you must learn her language.  A woman’s language is through “connection”.  By learning and understanding her language, then you can truly gain her trust.  When a woman trusts you this means she feels protected by you and can surrender to you.  When she can surrender and trust you, then she can open up to you in more ways than one.  Hint, hint!  Yes, this can lead to ecstatic orgasms and love making for her.  You will be a stallion in the bedroom. Sounds hot, right?

Here are top 3 ways to turn a modern woman on:

Connect to your woman:  Remember a woman’s largest sex organ is her heart!  She wants to “connect” with you.  When talking be present with her.  Look at her in the eyes.  Touch her hair.  Listen to her.  Pay attention to what she is talking about.  The more you “connect” with her, the more she will gain your trust.  Remember, trust and feeling safe are some of the best foreplay a woman can receive. 

Notice her beauty:  Although a high quality woman loves herself and treats her own body like a temple, she also enjoys receiving compliments.  Tell her how beautiful she is.  Share how amazing she is.  Let her know how important she is to you.  Don’t just say it, but mean it!   Notice how she glows after you compliment her.

Don’t rush into love making:  It takes most women between 15-20 minutes to orgasm.  Connect to her.  Make her feel safe.  Notice her beauty.  See her entire body as an erogenous zone because it is.  Kiss her entire body, and don’t go straight for her vagina.  This will prepare her body for you.  When you connect to her heart, she will open up like a flower to YOU!  Make sure she receives her orgasm before yours.  When she does, she will be coming back for more and more and more.

If you start to use these three tools, then you will be a KEEPER to a high quality and modern woman.  You will stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!

If you are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you, then start to implement the 3 tools above.  Because she trusts you, she will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.  Sounds amazing right? 

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in the book:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then go to http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/ to sign up for my FREE VIDEO SERIES:  Stand out from other men, become irresistible, so she chooses YOU!  Valued at $97. 

I guarantee your life will change forever, and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU!  

Much love, 
Antoinette Cabral
Dating and Relationship Coach for Men, Los Angeles

http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/