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It’s much different than what most men think!
A high quality woman has many suitors. Why? Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to. She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way. Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything. She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.
A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life! She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way. She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her. She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you. Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.
You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language. She can light up a room. Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.
You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her. You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic. She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality. The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong. She will not settle.
I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world. With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective. From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship. 60% of divorce is initiated by women. Why? Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.
Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy. She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either. Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.
It’s not about how hot you are. Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can. If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off! Good looks alone can only get you so far.
Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you. She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.
How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman?
Provide vulnerability: A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings. He goes into his cave. He closes off. In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level.
A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe. Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain. The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others. The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation. Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!
Learn from your past relationships: A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware. She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman. She doesn’t hold onto the past. She knows how to forgive and let go. She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new. When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship. You will stand out from other men!!
She is a flower: If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.
I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!! Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you? She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.
I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart. Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:
- Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
- How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
- Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
- How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
- What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.
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Please tell your friends, and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU.Much love,
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men