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Are you attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

Do you keep attracting men or women based on chemistry alone?

I dated a guy in the past where the chemistry was off the charts.  Later, I realized that we weren’t even on the same page with important values, and he was not emotionally available.  After weeks of tumultion, I thought to myself, “Am I really doing this again?”

 

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Chemistry can be addicting at first, but it helps you overlook the real qualities this man or woman may or may not be offering.  Also, you get so caught up in the chemistry drug that when it wears off you realize that sometimes this person might even be a bit crazy,  narcissistic or a complete mess.  Can you relate?

Lesson learned.  I no longer jumped into relationships based on chemistry alone because it just plain sucked.  As a Love Coach, I experienced lessons and growth first hand, so I can share the wisdom I gained to overcome the past experiences to clients.  Hopefully, they don’t have to go through the same challenges and obstacles that I have in dating and love.

Now here’s the scoop:

1)  Don’t sleep with someone right away.  Get to know someone first before you give them the prize, which is you.  Men, I know you may be thinking that I am nuts, but do you really want to be entangled with a woman who goes crazy on you.  Women you might mistake the chemistry for the connection you deeply crave, but wait to give yourself away to a man sexually.  Trust me on this.

2) Create a best friend ship as the foundation.  You’ve heard stories of people who are divorced and literally hate their ex.  I can see they probably didn’t create a best friend first.  A best friend has your back, listens to you, pays attention to what you want, and you can trust this person.  Does his or her actions reflect what they say?  Is it easy to be with person or is it a struggle?

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3) Listen to your intuition.  If a man says, he is not ready to be in a long term relationship, he is actually telling you the truth.  Women, don’t try change his mind. You aren’t on the same page as him, and let him go.  Men, if you don’t have a good feeling about her, then stand up for yourself and tell her that you are no longer interested in dating her.

I work with clients around the country, and I hear the same story over again.  “I have such great chemistry with him/her?”  Do yourself a favor and if you are not on the same page, then don’t sleep with him or her until you have found your best friend.  Create a boundary around your heart’s desires and say yes to what you truly want inside.

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Antoinette Cabral Find Your Dream Partner

 

Dating Tips for Men: What does a high quality woman really want from a man?

A high quality woman is the type of woman that you normally don’t meet at a bar, club or party.  This type of woman usually hangs out with her girlfriends, at the yoga studio, Whole Foods or a women’s business event.  One thing you’ll notice about her is her positive energy and the happiness that radiates from her.

I know many amazing and  awesome women because they are my clients, friends and in my social network.   I meet these women weekly and when I travel.  Problem is many of these gorgeous and amazing women are SINGLE!!  

Do you want inside secret on what this type of woman is looking for in a man??

If you can keep a secret, then I will share with you 3 secrets on how to capture this modern woman’s heart.

1.  Quality Connection:  In the past, it was the man’s role to financially provide for the women and your children.  The modern woman enjoys making her own money.  She will also gladly accept a gift or a dinner out if that is what you want to provide for her.  Want to learn secret number one?  The modern woman wants a quality connection with you.  The limbic region of the woman’s brain is twice the size of a man’s.  The limbic region is in charge of feelings and connection.  The nature of a woman is to connect.  She wants to share feelings.  If you learn how to provide “connection” with a  woman, then she can feel safe with you.

2.  Trust:  I know you men are visual.  When you first see a woman, you check her physical appearance.  If you aren’t physically attracted to a woman, then you won’t be sexually attracted to her.  For a woman, the key to attraction is through her heart.  Make her feel safe.  Connect to her.  Make her feel special.  If a woman can trust you, then you open up a whole new universe with her….in more ways than one.  

3.  Notice her beauty!  When your woman is happy, then you are happy.  You are happier when your woman is happy and content.  One way to make her happy is by complimenting your woman.  “I love that color on you.  That brings out your eyes.”  When you authentically compliment a woman, she will notice that you are paying attention to her.  Notice how much happy your woman is when you compliment her.  She will have a glow about her for days.  Hint, hint!  

This photo is a picture of my sister and I on Maui.  This is what we look like when we are happy and glowing.  You want your woman to have this same glow. 🙂

Now that you have learned these powerful secrets to capture a quality woman’s attention, please put them to use.  Stick with me, I will share with you the keys to the kingdom!

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Have a beautiful day!

Antoinette Cabral

Dating & Relationship Expert for Men

Dating Tips for Men: How to be IRRESISTIBLE to a high quality woman by Antoinette Cabral

This article was first published in YourTango.com

It’s much different than what most men think!

A high quality woman has many suitors.  Why?  Because a modern woman stands out from other women who you might be used to.  She DOES NOT whine, emasculate and manipulate you into getting her way.  Nor does she does she bitch and complain about everything.  She does not want you to be her sugar daddy, and she is NOT a drama queen or a hot mess.

A high quality woman loves herself and is full of life!  She is passionate about making a difference in the world and looks at life in a positive way.  She is motivated by joy and brings happiness to the people around her.  She believes in men and with the right man, she will bring out the best in you.  Plus, she is open to the adventure of being in a relationship in more ways than one.

You can spot this woman because of her radiant and confident body language.  She can light up a room.  Yes, people are drawn to her positive and magnetic energy.

You see how amazing this woman is, and you are inspired by her.  You want to be a better man because her energy is magnetic.  She is selective about the partner that she will choose because she wants something that is high quality.  The man she is looking is successful, sensitive and strong.  She will not settle. 

I personally know, have trained with and coached over a thousand women all around the world.  With my training with Master Teachers in Hawaii, Thailand, Los Angeles, India, in the healing arts, meditation, personal development, and Tantra, I know women from a biological, emotional, sensual and spiritual perspective.  From my own personal research, I know that up to 90% of women are dissatisfied in relationship.  60% of divorce is initiated by women.  Why?  Because what turns a woman on is different than what turns a man on. She wants to “connect” to a you, and you don’t know how.

Because a modern woman enjoys making her own money, she isn’t looking for a sugar daddy.  She isn’t clueless either where she won’t allow you to give to her either.  Receiving gifts from you is a blessing.

It’s not about how hot you are.  Yes, the movies and media portrays the hot man getting any woman he can.  If a man is hot, and he is arrogant, then this a big turn off!  Good looks alone can only get you so far. 

Women can feel connection, so it’s important that she can feel the energy and connection between the two of you.  She wants to feel your warm, safe and open energy.

How can you be IRRESISTIBLE to this modern and high quality woman? 

Provide vulnerability:  A big complaint that I often hear from women is that men rarely share their feelings.  He goes into his cave. He closes off.  In these situations, I teach women how to give men their space. Relationship does go both ways. Hint: A woman can trust you even more when you are able to share your feelings. She will be able to trust you and “connect” to you on a deeper level. 

A woman’s heart and her feelings are the center of her universe.  Current research has shown that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain.  The limbic region of the brain is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.  Being vulnerable makes a woman feel safe and connected to you more than you realize!

Learn from your past relationships:  A modern woman and high quality woman is self aware.  She has learned from her past relationships, so she can be a better woman.  She doesn’t hold onto the past.  She knows how to forgive and let go.  She knows that holding onto the past doesn’t make room for the new.  When you can embrace this wisdom, and learn from your past relationships, then a modern woman knows that you are not bring baggage from the past to this new growing relationship.  You will stand out from other men!!

She is a flower:  If you are dating a woman that you think can be that one special girl, don’t rush into sleeping with her. She doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat. She wants to be cherished, valued, and treated like a rare and unique flower. The more you water her gently with love, attention, and intention — showing her that she is that one special girl — she can and will blossom and open up more fully to you. I once dated a man that wanted to have sex right away. Because that was on his mind the entire time, this was a turn off. A man who shows that he can wait for a woman when she is ready is a HUGE turn on! This type of man is a keeper. This also tells me he is open to the adventure. If you get a woman to trust you before sex, then she can open up in ways that you have never experienced before! If she is fully open to you mentally and emotionally, she will definitely open up to you physically. Here’s a little secret: Our “biggest” sex organ is our heart. That said, connect to a woman’s heart and you’ll physically increase hers and your sexual experience.

I just gave you amazing insight to be IRRESISTIBLE to a modern and high quality woman, so she chooses YOU!!  Are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you?  She will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.   

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in my coaching program:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then CLICK HERE to book your complimentary session!

 Please tell your friends,  and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU.Much love,
Antoinette Cabral
Dating & Relationship Expert for Men
http://GetThatOneSpecialGirl.com

Dating Tips for Men: What turns a modern woman on by Antoinette Cabral?

This is first published in YourTango.com.

Do you want me to help you find a woman?  You are visual.  You see an attractive woman, and you notice her body, the color of her skin, her gorgeous hair, the shape of her breasts, her buttocks, legs and her own body language.  You start to have sexual thoughts about this woman and are completely aroused.  If she smiles at you and gives you eye contact, then the arousal increases due to the levels of testosterone you produce as a man. I know you won’t admit this to most women, but I do know that your “thing” has a mind of it’s own.

For a woman, her heart and feelings are the center of her universe.  Current studies show that women have a larger and deep limbic region of the brain, which is in charge of feelings and connection to others.  The way to turn on a woman is through her heart and emotions as opposed to visual stimulation.

Here is how I can help you find a woman.  To turn a woman on, you must learn her language.  A woman’s language is through “connection”.  By learning and understanding her language, then you can truly gain her trust.  When a woman trusts you this means she feels protected by you and can surrender to you.  When she can surrender and trust you, then she can open up to you in more ways than one.  Hint, hint!  Yes, this can lead to ecstatic orgasms and love making for her.  You will be a stallion in the bedroom. Sounds hot, right?

Here are top 3 ways to turn a modern woman on:

Connect to your woman:  Remember a woman’s largest sex organ is her heart!  She wants to “connect” with you.  When talking be present with her.  Look at her in the eyes.  Touch her hair.  Listen to her.  Pay attention to what she is talking about.  The more you “connect” with her, the more she will gain your trust.  Remember, trust and feeling safe are some of the best foreplay a woman can receive. 

Notice her beauty:  Although a high quality woman loves herself and treats her own body like a temple, she also enjoys receiving compliments.  Tell her how beautiful she is.  Share how amazing she is.  Let her know how important she is to you.  Don’t just say it, but mean it!   Notice how she glows after you compliment her.

Don’t rush into love making:  It takes most women between 15-20 minutes to orgasm.  Connect to her.  Make her feel safe.  Notice her beauty.  See her entire body as an erogenous zone because it is.  Kiss her entire body, and don’t go straight for her vagina.  This will prepare her body for you.  When you connect to her heart, she will open up like a flower to YOU!  Make sure she receives her orgasm before yours.  When she does, she will be coming back for more and more and more.

If you start to use these three tools, then you will be a KEEPER to a high quality and modern woman.  You will stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!

If you are ready for an amazing, beautiful and confident woman who believes in you and supports you, then start to implement the 3 tools above.  Because she trusts you, she will champion you to your greatness and be a true partner.  Sounds amazing right? 

I have created a proven and powerful 7 step system to capturing a modern and high quality woman’s heart.  Here are a few things that I share in the book:

  • Why the “game” doesn’t work on a high quality woman.
  • How to ignite a high quality woman’s sensual fire, so she finds you irresistible.
  • Stop attracting the wrong woman, Get That One Special Girl and Keep Her!
  • How to stand out from other men, so she chooses YOU!
  • What turns her on, and it’s different than what you think.

If you are ready for her, then go to http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/ to sign up for my FREE VIDEO SERIES:  Stand out from other men, become irresistible, so she chooses YOU!  Valued at $97. 

I guarantee your life will change forever, and I can’t wait to share my secrets with YOU!  

Much love, 
Antoinette Cabral
Dating and Relationship Coach for Men, Los Angeles

http://getthatonespecialgirl.com/ 

 

Los Angeles Dating and Relationship Advice for Men | Help me find a woman

What do women want from men?  How to love a woman?

1.  to fall asleep together, to snuggle, to spoon, but not to always be expected to want sex

2.  to have certain rituals together that are indestructible

  3.  to share a hobby, sport, game, activity — and all the better if you can talk while doing it

  4.  to have a partner that does not compartmentalize – opens up and shares the different parts of his life

  5.  talking/connecting in some way every day

  6.  touching every day

  7.  dreaming together, setting goals together

  8.  being treated nicer than anyone else in the world

  9.  able to keep secrets

 10.  able to be put first at times

 11.  able to do creative problem-solving

 12.  belief in the institution of marriage

Sharon Gilchrest O’Neill, Ed.S., LMFT, is a marriage and family therapist/consultant  in Westchester, NY, who has been in private practice for over twenty years. She is the author of A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage  (the Gay Edition to be released July 24th) and Sheltering Thoughts About Loss and Grief.  Sharon is often called upon as an expert and has been quoted in the NY Times, the Wall Street Journal, and a variety of print and online publications.  She can contacted at her website: www.ashortguidetoahappymarriage.com

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Help me find a woman: What does a woman want from a man by Antoinette Cabral

What turns a woman on?

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Dating Tips for Men: What woman really want from Men?

Kathryn Williams
Kathryn Williams

 

As a forty-something woman in love, I can offer some insight about what woman really want. Before I found my soul mate, I had to first find happiness, on my own, without a man in my life. It took years of failed relationships before I realized self-created happiness is critical. Can you really expect your partner to be your end all and be all? Sure, you can expect this but if you want a healthy relationship, you must realize your mate can’t be your sole source for happiness; this fulfillment manifests from within and anything else is icing on the cake!

We want different things from our partners during different stages of our lives. If you’re looking for a booty call or to be the puppeteer of your partner (without true give and take), then this isn’t the article for you. But, if you’re looking for a healthy, long lasting relationship, one that thrives on love, read on my friend!

The true foundation for a healthy relationship is reflective of partnership. It’s not one-sided; it requires give and take. This truth must be realized to embrace love whole-heartedly. At times, one partner will be facing hardship and during this period, the other must step up. This is cyclical; roles will reverse at times. Love relationships are not perfect; they will be flawed. We must accept this reality, if not, the fairy tale illusion of perfection will cause failure. If you’re not honest by taking ownership of your actions and expectations, change, otherwise, you’ll attract similar characteristics from your line up of future inadequate partners.

A healthy relationship must have a genuine foundation to manifest success in love. Women want to find a partner whose eyes are reflective of their own heart’s desires. This doesn’t mean we can’t accomplish fulfilling our heart’s desires without this person but instead, it means this individual will encourage and support our passion because our happiness is important! It is essential the partnership is fully blended, mind, body and spirit; this energizes the lives of both individuals involves. This heavenly fusion, when genuine and vulnerable, will shock the mortality and awaken the souls of those involved. It manifests love that renews a zest for life; it is a cherished and special bond. We want a union that celebrates our lives together, and fuels courage to overcome life’s adversity. The entwined collective strength of this partnership will empower the individuals in the relationship to brave life’s trials and tribulations knowing each significant other will always have the other’s back. Although you can’t walk in each other’s shoes, together you create an intangible force that you’re able to carry with you to help you conquer any battle! Women want to feel special, to know their existence is needed. We want a relationship authentically blended with love and spirituality. Realize this, put it out there, and manifest it into your life; it’s possible. I know this because I’m experiencing true love and you can too!

Kathryn J. Williams is an author and artist who works to increase spiritual wellbeing through inspirational poetry and unique commissioned drawings. Her book, ‘What Can I Say When Words Escape Me, being present in times of sorrow,’ (2009) was written to help those suffering sudden life hardships. In her business Lifetime Art Impressions, LLC, her clients commission oil pastel drawings, personalized inspirational poetry, and unique bereavement products. She is currently working on her second book, which is reflective of her journey, creativity and healing.

Website link: http://www.lifetimeartimpressions.com

Blog link: http://www.kathrynjwilliams.blogspot.com

Examiner column link: http://www.examiner.com/healthy-living-in-detroit/kathryn-williams

Open to Hope column link: http://www.opentohope.com/author/kathryn-williams/

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What do women want from men? How to attract a confident and happy woman

Question from a man:  “I am a sensitive and available man.  I am still building my career, but when I tell women, it seems to turn them off.  What do I do?”

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What do women want from men | What do I want in a man?

Dating and Relationship Advice for Men, Los Angeles
Deborah Chamberlain

Let’s start with the easy things:  I want a man, not a boy – a man who can get himself up in the morning without relying on someone (me) to shake him multiple times so he won’t be late.  A man who has enough self-respect to provide for himself, not live off of others (me), with a real job – not putzing around on the computer all day crafting impossible resumes that will never come to anything.

I want a man who can be humorously sarcastic, but never mean-spirited.

A man who is emotionally available, not stuck in the past with old-girlfriend baggage or “I still hate my mom” syndrome.  One who is truly single, not married and wishing he wasn’t.

A man who is kind and gentle, but not a sap; intelligent without being a know-it-all.

Clean – no hoarders, please.  And neat – remembers to pick up his socks and put down the lid.

No carnies or traveling salesmen.  I want a man who does not expect to “sleep” with me without establishing some foundation of a relationship.  I am not that “go-to gal” when he is in town and invisible when he is gone.

Interesting and interested – views the world for the stories it tells; shares his stories and asks me about mine.

Remembers the good and releases the bad.  Lives for today; not runs from yesterday.

What I want most from a man is to love and be loved.  To be cherished for my good qualities; and forgiven (and forgotten) my not-so-good parts.  In return, I will be try to be the best partner, wife, girlfriend, lover – whatever title describes knowing I am special to him, accepted for who I am and forgiven for what I am not, a bright part of his life, wanted, cherished, humored – a man who tolerates life’s challenges as we strive for a better life.  I want a loving relationship, someone to laugh and cry with, someone who will bring me up when I am down, make me smile when I am sad, cuddle me when I am lonely, shares the cooking and cleaning chores without complaining, cares deeply for me – and I promise to do the same for him.

The more I think of this, the clearer it becomes…I want a man like my Michael, my first boyfriend, my first love.  He was all of these things and more – intellectually poetic, kind, thoughtful, honest, gave love unconditionally, conversed rather than lectured, frowned at selfishness and jealousy.  I want to feel the way he made me feel – on top of the world, the only love of his life, happy, happy, happy – a man who wanted to be with me as much as I wanted to be with him.  That’s what I want in a man.  Why am I not with Michael?  Because the Vietnam War took him away … and I want him back.

 

 

BIO:

Wisconsin resident, Deborah (Donaldson) Chamberlain is the owner of Donaldson Media & Marketing Services.  She has a Masters Degree in Mass Communications and taught college-level courses in media, marketing and advertising. Chamberlain was selected by the editors of the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel to be a Community Columnist.  She has had multiple essays published in compilations, including one in “The Speaker Anthology,” an Amazon Best-Seller in multiple categories.

In addition to being a business owner and author of her memoir, “Orange Picnic,” Deborah is also a mom.  Her daughter, Becca Donaldson, a graduate of Northwestern University and Fulbright scholar, recently completed her research in the United Arab Emirates, and is now working in Washington, D.D. for Vital Voices.

Contact Deborah at orangepicnic@gmail.com.

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